Women’s Aid: Exposing The Reality Of Domestic Abuse

International Women’s Day was the date selected by Women’s Aid to launch their recent very powerful campaign.

Domestic abuse is a chilling reality, a “monster” that hides in plain sight, impacting countless lives across Northern Ireland. It’s not always physical; it can be emotional, psychological, and coercive, leaving deep scars on individuals and families. The impact on children can be particularly devastating.

The Sobering Reality: Statistics in Northern Ireland

The statistics paint a stark picture:

In the 12 months from July 2023 to June 2024, there were over 31,931 domestic abuse incidents recorded by the police in Northern Ireland.

Despite a decrease in incidents and crimes compared to the previous year, these numbers remain alarmingly high, highlighting the pervasive nature of domestic abuse.

One in four women will experience domestic abuse in their lifetime.

Police respond to a domestic abuse incident every 16 minutes in Northern Ireland.

Children are often present during these incidents, witnessing the violence or living in an atmosphere of fear and tension.

“The Monster Who Came to Tea” Campaign

Women’s Aid Federation NI is at the forefront of tackling this issue. Their recent campaign, centered around the children’s book “The Monster Who Came to Tea,” is a powerful example of their innovative approach. The book, seemingly lighthearted at first, takes a dark turn, mirroring the harsh reality of domestic abuse. This campaign effectively uses storytelling to raise awareness and educate about the issue, particularly highlighting the impact on children. The campaign includes an animated short film, an open letter to the Prime Minister, and lesson plans for schools, showing just how comprehensive it is.

The Vital Work of Women’s Aid in Ulster

Women’s Aid provides crucial support to victims of domestic abuse, offering:

Helplines and immediate support.

Safe refuge accommodation.

Outreach services for those remaining in their own homes.

Support programs and courses.

Advocacy for policy changes and increased funding.

They are also involved in partnership work, such as the support that is being given by “NI Travel News” who are raising funds for them throughout the year.

What To Do If You Think You Are Experience Domestic Abuse?

Raising awareness is the first step. Talk about domestic abuse, educate yourself and others, and challenge the stigma surrounding it. If you or someone you know needs help, contact Women’s Aid NI.

Visit their website: Women’s Aid Federation Northern Ireland

Remember, you are not alone.

Confidential Advice A Phone Call Away

Breda Cunningham is a Solicitor Advocate with decades of experience in managing issues of Domestic Abuse in the Courts. If you wish to speak to someone in complete confidence do not hesitate to reach out to her, telephone number 028 37 524790.

Breda will also be speaking at Women’s Aid Armagh Down at the Millennium Court in William Street, Portadown on 30th April 2025 from 10am – 12noon.